Hi, MAGGYMAY. Welcome to ILF. Sorry for your loss.
MAGGYMAY wrote:
Firstly we want to say "At God's right hand, let him be." I know there is a masculine and feminine version of this, but am I correct in thinking that the correct version here would be "Ar dheis lámh Dé go raibh a hanam dílis."
deis on its own is "right hand" so
lámh is redundant.
a hanam is "her soul".
The usual way to express this is:
Ar dheis Dé go raibh a anam dílis. "May his faithful soul be at God's right hand."
Closer still to what you want would be:
Ar dheis Dé go raibh sé. "May he be at God's right hand." (literally "At God's right hand may he be.")
MAGGYMAY wrote:
We also want to quote a small extract from James Clarence Mangn's poem, Roisin Dubh. The line in question is "Thou lovest me, and I love thee." as the poem has signifcance in many ways.
I can't seem to find the line in question in Róisín Dubh. Is this the version you mean?:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/R%C3%B3is% ... %28song%29