Hello, everyone, I'm Speedwell (it might as well be my actual name; I've been using it online for 20 years). I'm an American woman from Houston who married an Irish man and immigrated to live with him here in Co. Sligo earlier this year.
To the apparent confusion (if not shock) of the locals, I want to learn Irish properly. That means I want to read, write, and speak it well enough to sound educated and literate. A cab driver told me, "Oh, you're likely to have some trouble with that; it is different from when I learned it in school". A neighbor said, "You know, you don't really have to learn it; everyone speaks English around here". A shop owner said, "Well, you can do that if you want, but I don't see why you would really want to". The universal question is, "Why on earth would you want to learn to speak Irish?".
Well, folks, I may be a damnyankee by birth, and not the slightest bit Irish by descent, but I seem to find myself on the actual island of Ireland with a view to becoming a citizen in a few years, "if the Lord's willin' and the crick don' rise". When my daddy immigrated to the US, intending to become a citizen, he didn't waste any time learning English to a very high standard. I guess it's a matter of personal pride for me as much as wanting to learn to be a full participant in Irish culture. Every time I mispronounce a town name or shop name or person's name and the native Irishman gets THAT look on his face (you know, the combination of amusement and contempt), I feel like a g..d...
idiot. Every time I learn the tune to an Irish song, I want to know the words; after all the song isn't a song without its words, and the words determine, in large part, why the music is like it is and what you can and cannot do with the melody. Every time I see an official communication that's half in Irish, I feel half illiterate, and dammit, all my jobs have required me to know English better than everyone else. I am
not used to being illiterate. I
am used to being a monoglot, however, and that ignorant damyankee habit is going to change ASAP.
I think I really do need more than online helps, especially with pronunciation, since I sometimes have a hard time understanding speech (due to mild high-frequency deafness I've had all my life) and a hard time admitting it. We don't have the money for private lessons, as I'm a student and still looking for work over here. I'm also learning to drive a stick shift, something I've never done before, and as the only driver in the family (my husband has vision problems) it's not possible for me to drive far to go to a lesson. Right now it's mostly the bus into Sligo town when I need to go. What ideas do you have for me to expose myself to the spoken language so that I don't get discouraged learning only from the written stuff?
Thanks everyone
